It seems like each week I flip flop about having another baby. The one thing that makes this decision easy is that I still haven't gotten my first post-partum period... Pooks will be 20 months on Jan 9. Anyways one day I feel so anxious because I want Pookie and her sibling to be close enough in age to play with... the next I am overwhelmed with how much Pookie is still a baby, and how she needs all my attention. Then some days I feel relaxed and just figure it will happen when it happens. I wish there was a right answer.