tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8291422785713367375.post6945928942952767128..comments2022-11-20T07:23:30.697-05:00Comments on Another Crunchy Mom: Unconditional Parenting by: Alfie KohnShannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03242598370882692052noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8291422785713367375.post-25145611909306351362008-12-23T08:50:00.000-05:002008-12-23T08:50:00.000-05:00Yes it is hard to not say good girl and until you ...Yes it is hard to not say good girl and until you read UP you don't realize how damaging that can be. UP really changed how I think about parenting. We also emphasize what the babeola has achieved versus giving it a value judgment of good. We say a lot of 'look what you can do.'<BR/><BR/>I really like the DVD because you can watch it with your partner and discuss it. Plus it's faster than reading which is a bonus once the baby arrives. The DVD has really eliminated a lot of parenting style conflict and put my husband and I on the same page, which is soooooo nice.<BR/><BR/>MMotherhood for the Weakhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06813197295291518166noreply@blogger.com